LOL i love when people call other people shallow. When in fact everyone and thing is "shallow" Unless you go out with the ugliest girls/guys at clubs or where ever you go you are shallow also. Even animals go by looks when there trying to find a mate. Are animals shallow too? LOL
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Originally Posted by mindtrigger
1) am i a bad person for Wanting her to lose weight? ( i really want her to lose it)
2) if i'm not a bad person, how can i start a conversation with her without jeopardizing our relationship.
3) is our relationship over because i don't feel attracted to her anymore?
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Ok. im not a girl so you still might want to wait for an answer from them but....
No, your not a bad person, your human.
It sounds like you have been doing this but work out with her. You can always be more healthy than you are now, so it wont hurt. Diets are hard to do, if she doesnt need them just do the work out. If she needs the extra help after you have done the work out for a while, start one. Doing the work out will made her feel better and be more willing to do the deit. dont know how open you are with her or how easy it is to talk to her but some time you do need to talk. If and when you do talk to her, try your hardest not to make it sound like your attacking her. Dont use words like "you" use "we" that way she knows that you are going to be doing it with her. Good luck man and dont listen to people calling you shallow.
EDIT: You could also pick up tennis, That was its not a "work out." She likes to do it and you can do it with her.